Showing posts with label fashion trends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fashion trends. Show all posts

Wednesday, 5 August 2015

Pope weighs in on divorced Catholics who remarry

Pope Francis declared on Wednesday that divorced Catholics who remarry, as well as their children, deserve better treatment from the church, warning pastors against treating these couples as if they were excommunicated.
Catholic teaching considers divorced Catholics who remarry are living in sin and are not allowed to receive Communion, leaving many of these people feeling shunned by their church.
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Pope Francis is greeted by newlyweds during a general audience at the Vatican's Paul VI hall on August 5, 2015. FILIPPO MONTEFORTE/AFP/GETTY IMAGES
Francis' emphasis on mercy in church leadership has raised hope among many such Catholics that he might lift the Communion ban. Catholics who divorce after a church marriage but don't take up a new union, such as a second marriage, can receive Communion.
"Lots of people feel alienated from the church, they don't feel welcome there," Candida Moss, theologian professor at the University of Notre Dame, told CBS News correspondent Don Dahler in September. "But it seems like Francis is saying that the church has to be more progressive, it needs to be more practical and it needs to be more compassionate."
The Vatican this fall is holding a month-long follow-up meeting on family issues, after a similar gathering last year left divorced Catholics who remarry hoping in vain that a quick end to the ban would have resulted from those discussions.
In his latest remarks on divorce, Francis didn't go that far. But he insisted on an attitude change in the church. "How do we take care of those who, following the irreversible failing of their family bond made a new union?" he said.
"People who started a new union after the defeat of their sacramental marriage are not at all excommunicated, and they absolutely must not be treated that way," Francis told pilgrims and tourists at his first general audience after a summer break. "They always belong to the church." The church, he said, must be one of "open doors."
The pope acknowledged that church teaching considers "taking up a new union" after divorce wrong.
"The church knows well that such a situation contradicts the Christian sacrament," of marriage. Still, Francis said, the church must always "seek the well-being and salvation of persons."
Francis wondered how the church can insist that the children of these failed marriage be raised by their parents "with an example of convinced and practiced faith, if we keep them (the parents) far from the community life (of the church) as if they were excommunicated?"
He exhorted pastors "not to add additional weight beyond what the children in this situation have to bear. Unfortunately the numbers of these children and young people are truly great."
In his papacy, Francis has frequently suggested seeing situations through the eyes of others.
"If we look at these new ties with the eyes of young children ... we see ever more the urgency to develop in our community true welcome toward people living in these situations," Francis said.
Other than being widowed, the only possible way for Catholics who marry in the church to remarry is receiving an annulment. That long, complicated process essentially involves examining whether the marriage never existed in the first place. Grounds for annulment include refusal by a spouse to have children.
Previous pontiffs had complained that annulments in some places, notably in the United States, were being granted too liberally.
Francis ended his weekly audience by greetings newlyweds in attendance - brides and grooms in their wedding outfits.

Wednesday, 9 April 2014

Three Scots women shed their feminine looks and try out the masculine trend

STYLE icon Alexa Chung says she loves being a tomboy and that she feels far more comfortable wearing trousers and brogues than heels and a frock.Dressing ‘like a boy’ makes her feel more in control, she adds, and on a date she might even wear a pair of dungarees to test her man’s reaction.
We asked three very different Scots women to try out the masculine dressing trend.
Suzanne Cullinane, 24, a sales assistant from Kilwinning, Ayrshire, is a confirmed heels fan and loves glamour and dresses but was willing to give the look a go.
She said: “I’d never go out without my make-up on and I’m always in heels. I just don’t feel comfortable in flat shoes.
“I’m not the girliest of girls. I don’t wear pink but I love the old Hollywood glamour style, which is very feminine and womanly. I actually really liked my masculine outfit.
“It was comfortable and stylish, in a mod-ish 60s way. I think if you wear masculine clothes that are fitted, you can still feel feminine.
“I think it would be interesting to go on a date dressed like this but I would need to switch the flat shoes for heels.
Paul Chappells
Suzanne in a more masculine style
Suzanne in a more masculine style
“If you’re not wearing a girly dress and you’re more covered up, your date wouldn’t be distracted by cleavage or a short skirt – so maybe the conversation would be better.
“It’s nice to have the choice and that’s what’s great about being a woman. We have the best of both worlds. We can wear a man’s or a woman’s wardrobe and get away with it. Men can’t really do the same.”
Samantha McCrae, 23, who is a personal trainer from Glasgow, has been trying to boost her feminine side in recent years but loved a return to masculine fashion.
She said: “I’ve always been into sport and fitness so, until recently, I’ve not been very girly.
“It’s only in the last couple of years that I’ve started to get more into fashion and wear floaty pretty dresses.
“In my job, I don’t get much opportunity to get dressed up, so when it comes to the weekend I usually make a big effort with hair and make-up and really transform myself.
“I actually felt really comfortable in the dungarees and, if I was going to a festival or something, I’d consider buying these. I think men have it easy when it comes to fashion. They just throw on trousers and a top but us girls have more to think about.
Paul Chappells
Samantha in dungarees and a casual tshirt
Samantha in dungarees and a casual tshirt
“It’s much more comfortable to go out wearing a nice evening suit than it is to wear a short dress and heels.
“I can see what Alexa Chung means about feeling empowered.
“You feel more in control and I think men take you more seriously.
“If they meet you and you’re all dolled up in a dress, they don’t treat you the same way.”
Andria Walker, 36, a burlesque performer from Paisley, found donning a pair of jeans and shirt was way out of her comfort zone.
She said: “I’m a very girly girl and my wardrobe is basically all evening gowns.
“I’m renowned for being over-dressed on nights out with my friends. For me, it’s all about the dress. I think I might have some kind of Cinderella complex.
“Even when I’m dressed casually during the day I’ll wear a short dress and boots but I’d never go for a jumper and jeans.
Paul Chappells
Andria in casual jeans and a shirt
Andria in casual jeans and a shirt
“When I was dressed in the jeans and checked shirt, I felt like I was an imposter, I just didn’t feel like me.
“I did feel very comfortable but I didn’t feel empowered or anything like that.
“If I was going to wear jeans and a checked shirt, I’d have to make it more feminine, with more make-up and big hair.

“The mannish look just isn’t for me.”